Caregiver Safety – OncoLink Cancer Blogs


Taking care of another person who is faced with a medical
crisis can be simultaneously rewarding and challenging. With newer treatments,
people are living longer while having medical and physical needs that require
extra attention and TLC. Caregivers do incredible, demanding work
day-after-day. Caregivers must be aware of caring for themselves to be able to
continue to do this important work. This is caregiver safety.

Caregiver safety focuses on three areas: practical task
management, emotional well-being and physical safety.

Practical Task Management

Caregiving is a full time JOB. The day to day tasks of
caregiving are seemingly unending. It includes, but isn’t limited to: preparing
meals, cooking, housekeeping, laundry, transportation to appointments, pet
care, bill paying etc. Sometimes, the person we are caring for also requires
medical care at home—medication management, wound care, changing (adult)
diapers, not to mention medical decision making if our loved one is unable to
continue to do this for themselves.

Tips for Task Management

  • Make a list and check it twice. I am a big proponent of writing things down. Lately, I’ve been using my Amazon Echo to help me make grocery lists. Figure out what works best with you to organize what needs to be done and when.
  • Use a calendar for ALL appointments. Some online programs like Google Calendar allow you to share calendars with multiple family members and friends. You may also want to use an online tool like “My Life Line,” “Lotsa Helping Hands,” or “Caring Bridge” to share caregiving needs with others and put out a call for help.
  • Need help with meals? Take Them A Meal is a great online planning tool for families who need meals—either home cooked and maybe even an UberEats or GrubHub gift card.
  • Familiarize yourself with local resources for assistance with transportation, child care, emergency financial assistance and utility assistance. Ask your social worker or navigator for assistance identifying these organizations in your neighborhood. Churches and spiritual communities can also be of great assistance in times of need.
  • Build in time in your calendar for respite for yourself. A break from caregiving. Make arrangements for another friend to come over and spend time with the person you are caring for.

Emotional Well-Being

Caregiving can be a weight on our emotions, feelings and
sense of self. We want to provide support and care, but we also need (and want)
to take care of ourselves.

  • When you are feeling sad, happy, overwhelmed,
    worried, scared or frustrated, acknowledge these feelings. It is okay to have
    them. Tune in and pay attention to what your mind is saying.
  • Recognize your limits and set boundaries.
    Boundaries are a fence that keep things in (or out) of a specific space. In
    caregiving, boundaries are essential. You should not feel like you have to do
    something that makes you feel uncomfortable. Talk about these things with the
    person you are caring for, with other family members and friends and with
    healthcare providers.
  • Go easy on yourself. While you may be a
    superhero to the person you are caring for, wearing a cape every moment of
    everyday is exhausting. Give yourself a break and know you are appreciated and
    loved. It’s also important that you maintain time to do the things that are
    important to you. It might be an afternoon nap, reading a book, going on a trip
    or going out with friends. You do not have to give those things up because you
    are a caregiver.
  • Caregivers know a lot about caregiving. Seek
    each other out and learn from each other. You get it and may have great
    strategies to share and things to learn from each other.
  • It’s okay to ask for help.

Physical Safety

  • Caregiving is physically demanding work. This
    work can stress the body and even cause injury.
  • It’s important to understand body mechanics and
    safe methods to lift and turn another person. If you need to provide this kind
    of care to a loved one, ask for a physical therapy referral. A physical
    therapist can teach you how to safely transfer someone from bed to chair, or
    chair to car. A physical therapist can also teach you how to protect your
    body—in particular, your back—when lifting and turning.
  • Inquire about adaptive equipment that can make
    caregiving a bit easier on you. Examples include: a hospital bed, walker,
    wheelchair, grab bars, lifts, mattress overlays, adult diapers, urinals,
    commodes, and shower chairs.  These may
    be covered by insurance. Ask your social worker and physical therapist about
    eligibility and ordering equipment. Sometimes local community agencies also
    have equipment closets or grant funding available if items are not covered by
    insurance. The local Agency on Aging may also have resources available.
  • Know your limits and tell healthcare
    professionals and other caregivers! We can’t know you are uncomfortable with
    doing something if you don’t tell us. Speak up and let us know when you are
    struggling or uncomfortable with tasks.
  • Don’t forget your own health and well-being. Be
    sure to go to your own medical and dental appointments. You may also want to
    see a mental health practitioner who can help you work through some of the
    emotional stresses of caregiving.

And finally, it’s okay to ask for

If you take away one thing from this blog, it’s
giving yourself permission to ask for help. Not only is this an act of
kindness, but also one of safety. You do not have to do everything for
everyone. You may need to ask multiple people, multiple times—but help is out

Christina is a clinical oncology social worker who joined the OncoLink team in 2014. Christina blogs about resources available to the cancer community, as well as general information about coping with cancer practically, emotionally, and spiritually. Christina is an avid knitter and spends a great deal of time sharing pictures and stories about her three beagles, Linus, Maggie and Huckleberry. She also loves to travel, cook and is an avid Philly sports fan.

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